Am I gay

@Hvychmp welcome to 7cups.

As far as your gender preference, I cannot say and do not think one experience can dictate how you live your life. Have you asked yourself what your relationship is like with your wife? Often times an affair is a sign that things are not going well in a relationship.

This kind of question may be best answered with either a marriage counselor or a therapist for yourself.

i would have to agree with the comment above. we cannot determine this as the best person to answer this is yourseld, though i would recommend reaching out to a professional about this question.

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