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married to a man with narcissistic tendencies

User Profile: secretWest3044
secretWest3044 May 21st, 2023

My husband and I have been married for 8 years and we have 2 children and I feel like throwing in the towel. Communication and intimacy are awful. He is one of the most selfish people I know. I told him that since he wants to live this single life, why don't he go stay with his buddies. He tells me he will leave in December. I'm like why wait till December, leave now. What do I do? He doesn't put any effort in this marriage.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings May 22nd, 2023

@secretWest3044 I am sorry you have a challenging relationship. It must be rough on you and the kids. Will you be financially okay or do you depend on husband for financial support. Sometimes families stay together because it is the only financially feasible alternative.

Have you considered getting a therapist for yourself? That might help you cope with the situation and also give you a professional's opinion of how you should proceed.

Hope you get the support you are looking for.

User Profile: mercuryx
mercuryx May 22nd, 2023

Bro terrible man. You are beautiful and you deserve somebody genuine and authentic. Trash man. Im sorry you’re going through this right now.

User Profile: Anonkelvin007
Anonkelvin007 May 22nd, 2023

@secretWest3044 I'm sorry to hear your story. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't love you, your life is precious cherish it, believe that there will always be someone who loves you waiting for you, as long as you brave face life will be rewarded, leave him now don't let him push you, you should make decisions for yourself.