Feeling lonely
Hello I’m recently going through a break up and I had to move back to my mother’s home. I’m broke and feel like I have to start from scratch. This feeling of loneliness gets worse as the days go by because my ex has already moved on and seems happy while I’m feeling sad and alone and like my life’s just passing me by everyday when I should be enjoying it. When I do try to enjoy I feel like I have nobody to enjoy it with. My friend and family are all busy or have kids or married and don’t have time. This depressing feeling started before I even started dating my ex so it’s been awhile.
@humorousPerson8236
It’s normal to feel this way after a break up. Everyone’s separation is different so I can imagine how frustrating it is to start from scratch. Change won’t happen over night so baby steps. I’m on here every now and then if you need to clear your head.
@humorousPerson8236
been through much the same, and just take each day as it comes, things will get easier, but remember to take care of yourself
@humorousPerson8236
Breakup and their absence bring emptiness .
To many and for other it like freedom to breathe.
As you already felt lonely so it would be more now. As your friends n family are busy.let out feeling would be hurting you .
Like other said it will take sometime to adjust with this new change.
Do you take this opportunity to know urself more. Self digging. Why the place of love is not within you? What can be done to feel good within n complete?
@humorousPerson8236S
It seems your loneliness is bothering you
@humorousPerson8236
So sorry your going through this.im going thru similar something..it sucks .but this place helps a lot.yoyr not alone even tho you feel like you are.
it’s gonna be so bad for so long bro it’ll feel worse then it ever has but trust me it will get better eventually coming from experience of being hopeless you find peace through other things
@humorousPerson8236
You are not alone humorous. I'm going through it too. And it hurts like ***. I'm sorry you're having to go through this right now. I'm trying to do everything I can to focus on anything remotely positive. Whether it's having my favourite show on in the background as a form of company or literally forcing myself to socialise with new people on "MeetUp". It's taking everything to keep my head above water, all the while feeling that I'm drowning. The idea of someone we love moving on can be excruitiating. But in time I believe they become less significant to us and in our time we will start to move toward a new and I believe better future for ourselves. I don't have friends or family around much either, so I can relate. Have you considered therapy? As you mentioned "this depressing feeling started before" you started dating. I'm trying to focus on anything I can that could even bring the tiniest speck of enjoyment or even just positive normality, such as going out for a coffee and flicking through a magazine or creating a new Pinterest board of things I might like to try doing when I feel more able to try something. I've felt hopeless and helpless before and I've seen that I have been able to get through things I thought and felt were impossible. "THIS TOO SHALL PASS". This saying is very simple and often feels unhelpful when dealing with severe pain and heartache. But I wanted to share it as it has helped me a little, when I've gone through circumstances that I didn't think were possible to live through. Just as I am right now. I don't know if I'll make it through this time in my life honestly. But I think it's really important for me and you, and anyone else going through incredible hardship or heartache, that "this too shall pass". This pain will pass - and you will find healing. The emotions will pass - and you will discover joy and peace. The loneliness will pass - and you will find comfort, friendship and love. The darkness will pass - and you will find the light. "The sun will rise again. You never know what the tide might bring". Drift 💪☀️ 🌊
It is alright to start over at any age. Healing will happen regardless of situation and time. There will be better days. Think of yourself 5 or 10 years from now. Who will you meet? Who will you be? What will be your occupation? Will you go for higher studies? Will you start a new business? Will you have a simpler life but be in a better place and peaceful and happy? You might meet the one and make new friends. There's ALWAYS something good to look for in every situation, and ALWAYS something good that comes out in every situation. Will you have your first child by then? You never know you can never even guess where life can take you. All's destiny.
I'm as well in a situation where im having to start at zero, whilst aallll of my peers are so much ahead of me. I'm two months into my course, and i havent studied nothing. Every other person tells me they know nothing but they actually do and fill up pages and answer questions. I say i know nothing and i literally know nothing im sooo blank. So yeah. But it's fine. It's just the beginning of something new for me.
And the end of this break up of yours.. it justs means you opened a new chapter. Be strong, i will be too ❤️
