i need help
Hi, I'm struggling right now I do not know how to deal with it anymore I'm a senior in high school I've been put under so much stress lately in applying for colleges I'm so behind on my school work and I just can't bring myself to do it my room is such a mess I can never seem to get outta bed to clean it all my clothes are dirty like my room I do not have the energy to clean it im pulling away from my boyfriend I don't want him to see what I am like when I'm like this I just can't anymore it's getting tiring I don't even think I'm gonna get accepted to any college my grades aren't even good and on top of that I'm in jrotc in a leadership position and if your wondering why I don't just join the military i can't I wanted to so badly but I have a heart condition i wanted to join the military so bad. i just need some advice on how to survive the rest of my high school career
@indigoField2921
Hi Indigo😃👋 I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way, but I’m glad you reached out. Senior year can be so overwhelming, especially when you’re juggling college applications, schoolwork, and everything else. I completely understand how stressful it can be—last year, I made some mistakes with deadlines and schoolwork too, which caused a lot of stress. I ended up taking a gap year to reset, and this year, I’ve found that breaking things down with a “to-do list” and focusing on one task at a time really helps me stay on track. Start with simple tasks, like tidying a small area or breaking your to-do list into manageable pieces. That can help create some space and give you a sense of control.
As for your JROTC position and he military not being an option right now. It’s okay to feel disappointed but your leadership skills are still incredibly valuable, and there are many ways to apply them in the future, even if your path looks different than you first imagined. Remember, your well being is a top priority💛 If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to talk to your partner about it. He may want to support you. And if you need more help, reaching out to a professional can make a huge difference.
You’ve made it this far, and I know you have the strength to keep going. You’ve got this! Take care, warm huggies and kind thoughts to you🤗💖
