Self doubt

@quietNickel1872

i know at the time she was a big help to you keeping you on course and reassuring you ...... that is great and it is easy to fall into the thinking that the encouragement and mentoring will continue.....

IMO sooner or later we need to become our own advocate and while a helping and reassuring word is always welcome life has a way of people doing different things and maybe moving on ....... the best gift she could have provided is belief in yourself ....... stressing about needing a nudge or someone to keep you on task maybe examine why ........ what is keeping you from being your own cheerleader.

Thankyou i was feeling down from the past 2-3 days. This is really helpful at this moment. I hope you have a nice day ahead.

@quietNickel1872 I was recently reading a new research that proved people do good every time the receive encouragement from others (or if they generally believe in themselves). In the study they blindfolded people, they encouraged them to do bascetbell shoots and regardless of height and strength, encouragement made people achieve the highest scores. In other words it's not that girl that you need. It's who she made you BELIEVE YOU ARE. You are amazing and you don't need anyone to succeed. We are all here for you so if you need this encouragement please don't hesitate to connect with a listener for a 1on1 session. Thank you for sharing!

@calmDew1576

I saw something similar to that in the show Brain Games which used to be aired in Nat Geo

Thankyou so much. This is really good and helpful for me.

@quietNickel1872

I hope I'm not too late to reply :p

I completely get what you mean, as a student myself, it feels scary and daunting to study for an exam without knowing you have your friend to rely on. Like others here said though, it's about the confidence you feel while studying with your friend and knowing that if you need help, there's someone there to help out, which is true!! It's completely okay to not know things or get stuck here and there, we're not google after all. What's key though is maintaining your composure when this happens and finding the answer! Could ask your friends or a teacher or google or ChatGPT or anybody, it's about you feeling confident about what you know, rather than worrying about what you don't know or understand.

You can accomplish anything you set your mind to as long as you stay calm. That way, if you're faced with a problem, you're level-headed enough to decide what to do next without panicking.

Good luck with your exams!