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Is it too late??

Hi everyone ❤️

I want to become a doctor, from last year due to health issue I am studying from home and last year I also had 12th board exam , so , I was not able to do well in my medical entrance exam , for that I took drop this year to write medical entrance exam again and now I am fully recovered, again due to some personal issues and distubance in house i wasted 4months and I am left with only 8 months now and I am worried as *** , I am worried what if things gone like last year only , I want to study and I want to get into my dream college but it's feeling like I am not able to control anything , feeling like time is passing very quickly, whenever I sit to study want to be consistent atleast from now on , there will be someone or something to disturb me , I am tired of that , I tell my mom to not to include me in any type of events this year and don't call me whenever guests came and at the end when guests come I have to go , and my sister is pregnant and in two months the baby will come , again I have to help my mom with household things and all , I don't know what to do , I told her so many times to not disturb me but I do understand she is alone and she can't manage everything and there's no one to help her except me , but what about me , now I only have 8 months , I am worried weather i can make it or not , what's the use of me taking drop ?? If I was not studying, no one understands me , and I am just feeling frustrated , want to yell at everyone 😮‍💨

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aren60 August 21st

@compassionateCurrent3414

Hi! It's totally understandable to feel overwhelmed, but it's crucial to set clear boundaries and communicate your needs to your family. Explain how important these next eight months are for your future, and suggest finding alternative help for your mom during this critical period. Create a structured study plan, dedicate specific hours to studying, and ensure everyone knows those times are non-negotiable. Consider using noise-cancelling headphones or finding a quiet place outside your home to study if possible. Focus on what you can control and remind yourself daily why you started this journey. I believe in you!

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compassionateCurrent3414 OP September 16th

@aren60


Thank-you so much ❤️ for your response

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