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lilredwbigmouth October 14th, 2015

theres not many good places to talk about your loss

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struggler64 October 14th, 2015

I've never heard of babies born sleeping? Is this a different way of saying a baby is stillborn? If you experienced this, I am so very sorry. People will hear you here, and care. This is a supportive community! Explore all of it, and you will find hope and help.

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lilredwbigmouth OP October 14th, 2015

i had one still birth my daughter just went thru it.

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Kat684 October 25th, 2015

@lilredwbigmouth

I am so sorry for your loss. I have had two stillborns. My son in 2009 and my daughter died in 2014 when i was 6 months pregnant and hit by a drunk driver. If you ever need to talk im around.

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October 25th, 2015

@kat684

Thank you for your bravery sharing and extending your offer of support <3

Truly sorry to hear about your twins and always experience

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Kat684 October 26th, 2015

@Rycochet

I didnt have twins it was 6 years apart. It has taken a long time to find joy in things. I know how hard it is to lose all the hopes and dreams you have for your babies.

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October 26th, 2015

@Kat684

Please accept my apologies for misunderstanding your post.

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October 14th, 2015

@lllredwbigmouth

So sorry for your loss. Talking about your baby is important and as you may or not know tomorrow marks the international wave of light for baby and infant loss. I have a planned post to mark the occasion.

Until then I will tag a forum mentor @Roadie who can hopefully direct you to a board where you feel comfortable.

Lyra October 14th, 2015

@lilredwbigmouth

Hello :) Thank you ever so much for your suggestion - you're very right, there isn't a sub forum dedicated to stillbirths, but the Grief and Loss Community may be a place you'd like to take a look at. You are of course also more than welcome to start a thread there if you can't find a thread dedicated to the matter you'd like to discuss.

The Parenting and Pregnancy Support Community may also be an appropriate place for you to open up about what has happened to you.

Whatever you choose, please know how loved and supported you are here, and how much love and support is extended to you, whether you wish to share or not.

I hope you have a lovely day <3

CC. @Rycochet

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lilredwbigmouth OP October 14th, 2015

the parenting forums make it worse bc most have their child. just makes miss things more

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Roadie October 14th, 2015

@lilredwbigmouth

It's not a bad idea to have a sub-category for this. I'll give it some thought over the next couple of days.

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lilredwbigmouth OP October 14th, 2015

thank you. very much

October 14th, 2015

Thank you @Lyra and @Roadie for your well considered replies and compassion here <3

Kat684 October 26th, 2015

@Roadie

I think it would be amazing to have a sub group. I know personally being in a mothers group in general is to hard and women who have not lost children do not understand our grief.

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