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Terrify of everyone always leaving

Amigo456 December 28th, 2023

I find myself very scare of my loves of one day leaving for someone better. I feel like I fight too much when someone leave I grief for days because I assume that the problem is just me, 

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toughTiger6481 December 31st, 2023

@Amigo456

The problem is not you...

we all fear someone we love may decide to leave ... it does happen sometimes ... but in the end the fear makes us clingy and maybe too much for them to deal with... we can actually be acting out things that in fact makes those around us upset or angry and consider leaving. 

sometimes in life we have people leave but it is a huge growth opportunity for us .... or a trial we must overcome. 

Lg32 January 24th

I know exactly know how you feel. I'm not with anyone currently but when I was with my ex and she left it would hurt. Even today when I talk to people I say are friends but are just people I text and they suddenly just stop and leave it hurts and I say to myself what did I do wrong. Was it something I said. Just remember that it's not your fault at all. They just leave for whatever reason they like. You are not the problem for someone leaving.