Am I the only one?

I bet you have lots of great qualities. Try to find all the ways you can be kind to yourself. Not so much in a physical sense (like buying yourself something as a reward or pampering yourself) but just in how you talk to yourself and treat your emotions. You are literally doing the best you can at any moment. No need for negative self talk. No need to “compete” with others. Be ok just being you. It doesn’t mean there isn’t room for improvement. Be ok with the process of improving whatever it is you want to improve. When you can care for yourself, care for your personal inner world, then you can be ok with who you are in your social world. When you were a baby your mom didn’t love you because you had money or could do a triple summersault high dive or astrophysics. She loved you just because you were her child. You have to give yourself that kind of unconditional care. Sometimes that is a challenge for us but it goes a long way in building self esteem. Sure, our accomplishments can also help with self esteem but they are secondary. We are not our skills or our money. If we are then what happens to our inner self if we get injured or lose our money? But caring for our inner world is something we can always do. So care for yourself. You got this!