Abusive Dad
Heyyyyy folkssss,
SO I have a dad who I am pretty sure is emotionally abusive. He even threatened to break my arm once just because I 'playfully' pushed my brother. And I was only in sixth grade! I told him if he could not say it anymore but he told me I was overreacting and that he didn't even 'touch' me. He is a b*tch. And then I feel bad for saying that because, you know, he says I am unthankful and he gives me a house and food and presents and that I deserve 'none' of these.
Well You could tell that made me pretty mad so I wrote all of this in my diary, how I hate my dad and what he is doing but later I got so mad that I called him the ugliest guy on earth.
Later my mother found the diary and told me that I deserved nothing. Even though she didn't know what my dad had just said.
He once hit me so hard that it was red, and continues to call me stupid and crazy and 'dog' (which in my culture is a very offensive term)
I told a counselor and she called the Child Abuse Hotline right away, and she said that interviewers will come to me soon to address the situation.
BUT GUESS WHAT! It's been months now and nothing has happened. I am now stuck with this abusive B*tch (my dad) and my mom. Why, why has nothing happened yet?
Anyone else experiencing the same thing? Hello? I feel so sad and lonely I just need a hug right now )))))):
@HeckerzzGirl
so you have a confrontational relationship with your parents and perhaps should see a family counselor .... but instead it escalates and now you are unhappy... that whatever authorities have not come and took action....
what do you envision happening? your dad punished in some way ?
perhaps leaving the family does your mother have income to carry all the load ? what if people assume mother was enabling abuse if it is verified .... do you want to live in a foster situation or with other relatives?
home/ food/ utilities etc.....
because once you get this escalated fixing or mending relationships is not very likely ........ so years down the road do you envision no contact or perhaps you feel all is forgotten in what happens when you are a kid.
