so i dont know what to think
so there's this guy in my class, we've been talking on a daily basis for 4 months via text and also at school (not as often) and were currently in a gray area ("just friends"). sometimes he gives me signals that he likes me a lot but he's been lowkey igoring me for a few days, like not writing first, short replies etc. and also he was friends with my bff before he knew me, but now theyre not anymore but all of a sudden he starts talking to her in class ?? and flirting w/ her and ignoring me ?? and it happened the day after someone suggested it to him jokingly (to annoy me). i dont get it. did he actually get bored of me or am i being a possesive brat and i just want their attention on me only ?? i get so confused and sometimes i think i might be borderline just cause i get so jealous and obsessed and passive aggressive and i kinda had a panic attack cus of this situation i dont know what to think
@giorjie If I were you, I would ask him how he thinks of you, or tell him how you feel. I know it seems really scary but it would be a lot easier for you, so you don't have to wonder anymore and so you can either be with him, or move on. If he is flirting with other girls, and leading you on then he is not worth your time at all. You deserve someone who can actually treat you well and be loyal to you instead of playing games with your heart. I am sure you could still be friends with him, but don't let him mess with your feelings too much. <3 If he is the one for you, then it will work out. Otherwise, you will just have to be happy until you do find the one for you. ^-^
@Astrobunnies thank you so much for replying ^-^ ! i guess i kind of knew that this is the right thing to do, but i just needed a push. wish me luck!
@giorjie Aww yaaay! Good luck! ^-^
