alone 4evr :(
so. i am very much an outsider. i sit (sat. covid lol) by myself at lunch, and have for all 4 years of high school, i have a hard time talking to people because they do not interest me and i HATE small talk, i don't talk to anyone at work, and even online i barely have any friends. even before covid, i would mostly only talk to my family (who i hate). and it's not like i have social anxiety. i love talking to people, i'm an extrovert. but that just makes it all the more harder when i am only able to talk to 5 people a day :(. i'm a senior in high school and i'm really worried that i'm going to be even more lonely once i go to uni. idk it just feels like i'm so isolated from the world because i don't have anyone to talk to ever (except here of course). i've felt like this consecutively for the past 2 years!!!! grrrr!! i want to scream and cry and yell!!!! augh!,!!!
how do i find people to be friends with that actually interest me (i've tried clubs, jobs, community events, tinder, everything). (ps: if someone doesn't interest it's rly hard for me to enjoy talking to them bc i have the adhd lol)
@parrie Don't be so hard on your self friendships take time to develop and i have ADHD too and get bored easily as well so i get that keep Trying its hard to make friends right now due to the pandemic meet up groups are always an option but most are virtual for now i would give it a try Good luck.
Agreed don't be too harsh on yourself friendships can take time but it can happen!
One of my best friends has ADHD he's awesome he sometimes gets bored and stops talking but I get why, if you can find friends who will understand that will maybe workout better? :)
Sending all the hugs 🌈
