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What should I do

wittyAcres7004 October 9th, 2022

I’ve been in this relationship for a few months and it’s starting to get serious, it’s kinda long distance (9 hours away from eachother). I’m taking care of my sick grandmother and she is raising her kids (not biologically hers, but her exes). She wanted to buy a house out here and have a fresh start with the kids or leave them in general and move out here. I told her to stay with her kids that I wasn’t going to come between them, but idk what to do

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calmDew1576 October 9th, 2022

@wittyAcres7004 What you are going through sounds pretty challenging dear. It's admirable that you are taking care of so much and that you are helping your grandma. The best thing to do is be honest and talk it out with them. Express your will to help but also your own needs so that you can decide together. Also please don't hesitate to connect with a listener to talk about it further if you are feeling overwhelmed about this big decision! Thank you for sharing your concerns and we are here for you!