What am I supposed to do now?
I reconnected with my old high school crush we've been talking for almost four months. He is arrogant and emotionless towards the people but a whole different new caring and loving man around me. But he confuses me a lot. He talks about a possible future where we might be together and sometimes he just tries to push me away. He lessened his communication as well. What do I do?
@tranquilRiver2416
Heyyyaa! I understand that why it may seem confusing to you, have you tried talking to him about how you feel or getting him to open up? He must've had a reason to do so as he seems to be kind and considerate around you. Overall, I'm glad the both of you reconnecting and I hope it's going well for the both of you!! <3 <3
*I understand that it may seem
@tranquilRiver2416
I believe he's creating distance to other people, as in emotionally unavailable, to prevent his feelings from being hurt. From what you said he seems to like you so that's where the talk of "possible future" came from but then after that he is reminded about his emotional distancing and thus, in his confussion, sometimes pushes you away and lessen the communication. Something must have definitely happened to him before you two reconnected. The only thing you can do now is to confront him about it (which might be counterintuitive?) or wait for him to slowly open up more when the time he felt is right.
