Pregnant and found out my partner is cheating
I really just need to type this out.. I just found out my partner has been cheating on me. I’m 14 weeks pregnant and we just had a scan today, my baby is growing healthy.. this is should be the happiest time of my life.
he had cheated in the past, I thought we worked through it. We planned this baby and our future and it was a lie to him… I’m so broken, this isn’t how it was supposed to be. I don’t want to talk to anyone I know about this.. I can’t bare it. So I came here..am I that pathetic
@Thoughtdweller
I'm really sorry to hear that, it truly is an awful situation to be in. At this time it might feel easier to confront yourself but no, you're not the pathetic one here, the one being cheated on can never be at fault, people in relationship should be fully accountable with their actions, your partner should've known better and been more responsible, specially to the future y'all committed to create together. :/
I understand how broken you must be feeling at this time, it is simply heartbreaking. :/ Sometimes we cannot talk to those around us, that's very valid, but it can make us feel more lonely, so I'm really glad you're reaching out for support in cups, and hope you find some compassionate company during this difficult time.
I get how hard it must be to even think of anything in general, but please do try to take good care of yourself and the baby, y'all deserve so much better than this. The world must seem like crashing currently, and it definitely feels like that, please know you're allowed to feel as you do, and take all the time you need to process your feelings, and the circumstances you're in, no rush at all.
Sending lots of love, and offering comfy hugs. ❤
I am sorry for the stress you are under........when you planned baby did he seem all on board or just agree to keep you happy.
The timing is horrible but if he is not all in would it have been better after the baby came ... a few years down the road ...there will never be the right time for this to end or be worked out. I hope you can find peace in whatever your decision is.