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User Profile: hollieakers90
hollieakers90 December 8th

Can anyone give me advice or their opinion on why my bf of 5 years accuses me of cheating and lying even though I'm around him 24/7 this can be even when we're in the same room same house he thinks it it's been going on for over a year now out of the blue

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User Profile: Aite
Aite December 8th

@hollieakers90

Truth is, it could be multiple reasons. Some men accuse women of doing what they’re really doing. Some men have trust issues and have been cheated on in the past. Try to go back to when it began. Think back to the beginning, did he always accuse you and you’ve just never noticed? Can’t really say from the small information given but he seems to lack some trust right now.

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 8th

@hollieakers90

Like the other poster said ... it may be deflection ....or a way out in building distrust

it can also be he feels a disconnection and if He has a past of  someone cheating they may just assume that is it.  No relationship is the same it is always a work in progress between two people.  

User Profile: 6werved
6werved December 23rd

@hollieakers90 I'm sorry you're dealing with this, this can be hard for anyone in this situation. have you tried talking to him about this? communication in the relationship is a big part of it. has he gone through any relationships that hurt him to think this way? that could be a reason, make sure not to jump to conclusions it can make it worse and stress yourself badly. remember you matter and deserve to be heard always.