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Lost hope

Paisleyspage August 2nd, 2021

I feel unloved by my husband. I’ve been fighting with him since we got married last year - begging him to care for me, love me, and show those in ways that I can understand, not in the ways that are just his or easiest/convenient. I’m losing hope in our marriage.

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VioletSpringGlade August 19th, 2021

@Paisleyspage

Hello! It sounds like it has been a difficult marriage for you so far. Are you and he able to talk about this? Do you have any support or friends outside your marriage? Sometimes feeling loved by family/friends can help how we feel in a difficult marriage. Hope you have found some support here at 7 cups.

PumpkabooKayla August 21st, 2021

It must be so hard feeling unloved and unappreciated like that. I know that it's so painful feeling like you have a hole in your heart that you feel can only be filled with love from your partner. What sorts of things do you wish he would do for you? What kinds of things have you guys been fighting about (and you don't have to say anything that makes you uncomfortable if you would rather not, of course)?