I need advice :(
me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years, for about 6 months now he stopped everything that makes me feel loved. He completely stopped trying. I brought this up to him basically every single day and he would get upset and recently I’ve decided to just give up. I feel like if he cared he would try to make me feel loved again, do the little things, be there for me when I’m down. I’m very hurt and confusing and having a talk with him is just pointless and a waste of time now:( . What do I do?
Have you tried approaching the topic in a way that might seem less confrontational? Maybe it would help if you ask him to talk to you about what's going on in his life and inquire as to how you could support him. It's possible he's dealing with something himself and not feeling supported. It's hard to be there for someone else when you don't feel like you're even there. And maybe that's not the case, but it doesn't hurt to find out before making such a big decision. 2 years is a big chunk of your life.
ive tried approaching it with little things, but it never worked, I’ve tried saying it light heartedly while we’re doing something, I get the same reaction every time:( . And he signed up for college like a month ago and I bet he’s stressed because it’s starting in a month. But it’s been a thing way before, and with every little thing he comes to me and I give him open arms and comfort. I don’t think he’d be hiding anything mentally, I really have no clue :(
