How to break it off when we’re living with his parents?
I’m currently with my fiancé of 5 years, 3 years engaged & separated twice within those 5 years (on my part). Although we’re back together I still feel the same feeling that he isn’t the right person for me. Yesterday I went to a psychic for fun to see what they say about my future with him. She said I was going to have a big decision from now till Dec 31st (might be a marriage, etc.) She also said I will have3 kids: 2 boys & 1 girl. This excited me, but as I got home & continue to contemplate about it for a few hrs, it confirmed to me the life I really want to have. And that I didn’t want to have that with him... Problem is, we’ve been out of our home & living with my fiancé’s parents for 6 months due to his business. I’m very close to his family & now that we live with them, we’re literally hanging out every day. They already call me their daughter-in-law & assume we’re getting married end of this year, but I really don’t want to...and I don’t know how I can break it to them for the 3rd time. I love them a lot & I don’t wanna hurt them again, but I also can’t continuing a relationship with their son when I’m super unhappy...
Maybe you should think about moving out? Live in a different place or apartment. Is living with your own parents an option? You might want to consider it.
@hikarichan93
What else could you do besides tell them the some of the things you honestly wrote here in your post?
Are you scared to tell them? You can tell them you're scared. You do not want to hurt them, you love them. But in the same time you do not want to be with their son. I understand it. It can be quite challenging for you.
And they may feel hurt, sometimes unfortunately it is inevitable and we can not prevent it.