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Heartbreak?

Lovesmile23 September 25th, 2019

He's leaving, I think he's leaving! His job offered him a relocation and I know he's going to take it. He'll be in California. It's not an immediate leave but it's a thought for the future that he will be leaving. Timeframe? Later next year (2020) This is hitting me hard. This sucks and not going to lie my heart feels like it won't be able to handle this. It feels like its already breaking. I can't stop omg. Make it stop

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Arora35 September 25th, 2019

@Lovesmile23

Are you not able to move with him? I'm guessing not, otherwise you wouldn't of made this post. 20/20 is still some time away, although its approaching fast, you guys still have time to talk. Tell him what your feeling, tell him your fears and apprehension you have time to explain how you feel, and most importantly, enjoy the here and present, have some laughs, make some memories to look back on in the future. Stay safe.

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Lovesmile23 OP September 25th, 2019

@Arora35 I just don't if it's worth enjoying the present. Idk if I should start distancing myself right so that it doesn't hurt as bad when it happens. I don't want to distance myself but I don't want to be shattered later on.

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Arora35 September 26th, 2019

@Lovesmile23

I do understand how your feeling and its not easy, to he honest with you, I think you'll regret not enjoying the time you guys have left together. Try and enjoy the here and how, worry about the when it happens.

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Lovesmile23 OP September 27th, 2019

@Arora35 You're right. I've been thinking about this all day. I'm on the losing end no matter what. If I distance myself now I lose. If I enjoy the time that's left, I'll lose in the future.

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