Figuring out if marriage is done
Married 11 years many accusations on both sides and last accusations were about my husband possibly being with our ex neighbor that a friend of mine told after she left town. I snapped even though we are separated once I found out but we were together when it was allegedly being done. I drive to her place where he boyfriend lives with child who was with her during this time and he doesn’t look too shocked. Long story short my husband excused is I wouldn’t mess with a older woman while they both calling each other and both of their significant others and it got me wondering if nothing happened why would y’all try to contact each other once it was brought to light please someone give me some insight on how they feel about this I’m loss hurt and feel betrayed we chill almost daily
@azureSky1487 if the accusations are true, they might be contacting each other to talk about it, the way they might be thinking is if one relationship is over I have a backup. However, they might be trying to contact each other just to figure out the accusations, yk? Either way if they cheated they prob will cheat again and I doubt they are contacting each other to just be friends. Still, if you ever try to confront him about it be careful because only having suspicions prob wont get him to admit anything, if anything he would up his guard and be more careful. That's my two cents i hope it helps lol
U right but on many other situations he just be defensive when it clear but not clear and he told me at the beginning of one accusation he finally confessed to he said I deserve it for cheating on him when we younger and marriage but I felt like I didn’t make him look stupid like he claims
@azureSky1487
hello! Welcome to 7Cups, my name is FrenchMarbles, it's really nice to meet you today! I've had a read and it sounds like a really tense situation. After reading your response it sounds like the husband is punishing you for something you did in the past. This is unacceptable especially if you and he are to work together for a solid future. I really hope you heal from this situation because it isn't fair for you to go through the problems in your head over and over.
Frenchie
