Do i just give up
I am somewhat seeing my ex boyfriend again, but im wondering if i should just give up. He gets upset when i dont stay the night, says i put him on the backburner, if we both have too much to drink, we'll get into stupid arguements...some to where he threatens to ruin my life. He's said that once before, i still went back to him...sometimes i feel he's playing mind games with me but at the same time im like why do i keep coming back to you. He's told me that he wants to marry me but I'm not so sure about that. He doesn't really trust me due to a situation where he took my phone from me a year ago and saw that i had been texting my ex and flat out called me a cheater. Should i just leave everything well enough alone?
@Morph2 Do you feel like the relationship is worth this sort of struggle? Alcohol can make people say things that they don't really mean, but it worries me if it's a cycle that repeats. Someone saying they want to ruin your life sounds pretty extreme to me! In the end it all comes down to what you feel because you are the only one who has to live through your choices. No one should depend on you to make them happy and trust is essential for a relationship to be healthy.
@CompassionateGirl90 i honestly dont think it's worth the struggle. Also, because we dont have a very good past because of me being a cheater....he doesn't trust me, but at the same time i feel i dont trust him and im somewhat afraid of him because i cant open up. He got upset with me because i went and tinted my car windows and i didn't go to him first because he works at a dealership and because i spent my own money.
