Confused
my relationship ended almost two months ago. I was so hurt and broken, but decided to make the most of things and focus on myself. I have been doing my own thing, trying new things, getting back into my hobbies and it’s been going well. I have moments where I miss my ex but I try to push those emotions aside. I took my ex off of my social media, but didn’t block him (I felt that there was no need for it). I decided to get back into painting and drawing and decided to remake my instagram into an art page, making it public. I’ve been posting things on my stories, and my ex has been looking at them. This has been going on for about two weeks now. I took him off my followers list which means he searches my page to see them. I know I can block him from seeing it, but I’m curious as to why he sees my things. He was the one that decided it was best to stay single, but yet he looks at my things. Does anyone have an idea as to why? Thanks for reading my post.
Hi!! Going through a break up may not be easy and from my understanding you werent the one who wanted to end it and that makes things harder too. But i noticed something else that after the thing that hurt you you found yourself again. You managed to paint again. You found that energy in yourself and could use for your soul pretty nice. Btw it is normal that he wonders abt you and looks your stories bc thats how it is. People are always curious about the things thay chose to leave. He probably thinks “what could have happened if i didnt break up? How is she now after me? I am pretty okay or not but how does she handle it?” I think its just curiosity but all i wanna point out again that i admired your ability to handle your pain with your paintings. Hope you get better!!!
