Cheating
This is not an accurate nor scentific number, but I've talked to and seen too many men in long term relationship or marriage cheats. 99% of their partners don't know about it.
I caught my husband's sexting with a woman on his phone messenger. Instead of apologizing, he was furious I looked at his phone. He told me afterwards that they were only messaging, and he met her when he was with 2 of our children.
Funny how he didn't see the sick side of it. A married man with 2 children still can get a woman's phone number and even sexting. This woman don't care if this man is married nor he was standing there with his 2 children. Realistically, both men and women can cheat. It's more about chance. Men just have more chances to cheat than women. Which mother with 2 young children will have the time to flirt with a man, and that man is even interested in getting a married woman with 2 children's phone number? It can still happen! But let's face it, the chance is remarkably smaller than married men with children.
I just don't trust my husband anymore. Now even when he's taking the kids out, I don't trust him. Who knows which woman is getting his phone number this time?
I am soo sorry this has happened to you. It is never ok for a person to become involved with someone other than their mate.
if you love him and want to mend the relationship seek therapy for you and as a couple.
I do caution you with his reaction to discovering his sextexting and meeting women with your children and he gas no remorse he could be a narcissist which is a whole other game!
I wish you the best.
@Bee0610
Male here. Trust: shattered. His reaction was insane. Seek counseling. I would have sent myself screenshots because you have children and you want solid evidence if things get worse before they get better.
Best of luck,