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A friend cut me off

Lin2022 August 4th, 2022

She's my neighbor. I was so happy to find her and we walk daily for an hour or so. We also hangout during the weekend. I thought this is like a miracle, I was so happy to have her in life.

However, she cut me off because I asked her to reduce her cell phone usage when we hangout. She said she feels that she has to watch what she does and says when we hangout and she doesn't like me tell her what to do.

I'm sad that I lost a friend. I am sad that she doesn't give me a chance to correct myself. I am sad that she just cut me off so easily.

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heatlightning August 4th, 2022

I agree just say hello and sorry for overstepping a boundary and see if she responds if not just respect and give her space she may come around again

toughTiger6481 August 10th, 2022

I think you can just say hello and if you chose to change your mind or apologize fine but honestly i understand your point

i walk with two ladies each morning and one does that as well when i started to look at my phone too she became aware that she did not like it when i was not engaged and just nodding or whatever....


yourbuddy30 August 22nd, 2022

@Lin2022 Im so sorry to hear that you lost a friend so close to you and who made you so happy. I understand what it must have felt like loosing her as i have been in a similar situation and i can completely understand what you must be going through. It must have been really depressing and it is valid to feel that way. How do you think you can gain back her as a friend? If a friend of yours was in a similar situation what would you advice them?