sexually Frustrated

Hi All

I am a Male in my mid 30's I am not great with woman and the last girl friend I had was when I was in college back in 2009. That is also the last time I have had sex. However I have noticed myself masturbating daily multiple times a day to porn. I feel like I can not help it. I want and need sex badly I do not want to go graphic here but I can not even remember what it feels like to put my part in a woman. Lately My masturbation has become the same thing. Turn on porn do the same thing ejaculate and that is it. I am tired of the same porn. I want more but am afraid to look at more porn. What do I do where do I go? I have tried playing with my prostate but I have no idea if I am hitting it or not. I don't seem to feel any pleasure there. I wish there was some place I could go and have people physically help you with finding things like your prostate in person. Anyone else having these same type of issues.