Sexual tension
Need a little help, I’ve gotten into a hole. I decided to play a joke In my girlfriend. No it’s backfired, she’s now said I need to have experience with sex. And using a condom, as she thinks that I’ll have diseases. When I haven’t actually done it yet. Because of the weirdness she had with her ex she doesn’t want that with me. And is making it mandatory for me to get experience in both. So she can try new things, and experience the pleasure from it. But is fine but with the learning curve of foreplay. What do I do, can’t say it now that my fake girlfriend and have broken up. Won’t change anything now and I’m stuck.
@Foxman10
It is important to have open communication in a relationship. It sounds like you are not comfortable with the idea of talking openly about sex with your girlfriend or with talking about sexual health seriously. Consider how she must felt when you made that prank at her expense. I am sorry to hear that you feel stuck. You should be able to explain how you were joking and have her understand. I wish you the best of luck here.
@HopieRemi,
I take sexual health very seriously, this sort of topic I never joke about. But that’s not my point, I love my girlfriend and want to do right by her when it comes to this. But that been said,I’m not in agreement with her on that she’s made a condition so that she can be pleasured in it. Because she’s just thinking of the next fix for her drive, and can’t hold off anymore because of her ex boyfriend. That’s what I don’t like, people making it a condition that has to happen in my relationship I’m in. Because there thinking of their selves, they can’t control there sexual drive and just wanting the next person to have sex with.
So like I said you should tell her. Don’t feel afraid to be honest with what you want and don’t want. Communication is important.