Sexless marriage
My husband and I have been together for 11 years and maybe have sex once every 6ish weeks the past few years. I have discussed it with him and he told me he's not attracted to me because I'm overweight. I don't think I look that bad because I weightlift 5-6x a week and cycle several times a week so I'm trying really hard but I do have hormonal issues I'm working on. It just sucks that he doesn't care that I'm trying and doesn't find me attractive. I was overweight when we got together then I lost a bunch of weight midway thru but got into an accident and wasn't able to walk for awhile so I put on weight again during that time. Anyways, there is zero intimacy, no kissing or making out, no cuddling, no foreplay. When we do have sex it last maximum 2 mins and it's all for his pleasure. I feel so used and so freaking lonely.