Open Relationship
Lasco
2 days ago
Greetings, I don't normally vent or express things regarding my relationship. My fiancee of 4 years told me she is bored of me sexually and wants an open relationship or she leaves because the only thing I'm not doing anymore is satisfying her needs...I don't know what to do because if she doesn't do she won't be happy ever with me
Aayla
2 days ago
@Lasco the real question is, how do you feel about open relationships? Because if you accept one but you don't really want it, you're never gonna be happy with her either. Compromise is not the same as self sacrifice. If an open relationship is not for you, it will only make you suffer. If you are unsure and you want to try it out, you can try it and it might turn out well, but remember it's always your right to step back if you feel like it's not working for you.
She has the right to express her feelings and needs, but you have the same right. If your needs are not compatible, forcing one of the two to give up on something they want will eventually make you both unhappy.
