Is this sub behavior or?
I dont know if this is the right place for this but I am crazy confused so I guess it's better than nowhere.
I'm 20 so im not inexperienced when it comes to sex, but I've had several awful partners so i can be very prude and withdrawn about it. But recently I met a guy and we had a one night stand, we have mutual friends and stuff so I see him around, but since then it's kind of awoken something in me nd even though I barely know him I just have this insane desire for him to tell me what to do, and I actually want to do what he tells me, i just feel like I need to please him, like it's starting to take over my normal life because I just can't stop thinking about it. Generally I would write it off as a crush but it feels purely sexual and honestly I just dont know what to do with myself. I'm far to socially anxious to say anything to him but I feel actually insane by not being able to say anything.
Has anyone else felt like this? Am I overreacting or is this normal stuff? Discussing sex makes me deeply uncomfortable so I just dont know what to do :(
@communicativePapaya1462
Lust is a perfectly normal feeling for us humans so I can assure you that nothing is "wrong" with you in your feelings. And as long as their is mutual consent in these desires they can be completely safe to explore. If it's something you would like, reach out to him and see if he's willing to help you with this.
And if you need someone to talk to about this or anything else, feel free to send me a message :)
