Cant feel love

My bf loves me a lot but i don’t know if I love him as much as he does! We are doing long distance almost always and I’m so tired of it!

He doesn’t care about intimacy and never ask me about our sexual desires..

even when we are together he does things the way he like and even tell me to do the way he wants only…

my needs are not met and I haven’t been able to communicate this to him at all

I am scared if i tell this , it will hurt nd thinking of leaving the country so that i can drift apart from him! I know it is selfish but he loves me a lot that he will not accept if i talk this

if anyone has gone through something similar please help