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Tired...just venting right now.

carefulBeach5245 February 28th, 2021
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It's been 12 years. I'm tired of constantly making the sacrifices. Tired of being told "well I work" etc. I hate the constant tug of war I have with myself with wanting to stay or leave. If Ieave I could be free to breathe but it will also mean missing him. Plus who am I kidding. I don't have the funds to live in my own with 3 kids. I don't know anymore. I don't know what I'm doing with my life. It's the same routine day in and day out. We have never broken up. We've always been together even through the fights. I was never allowed to go out by myself and hang out with friends if I didn't take the kids with me but he was always allowed to go alone.

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Asher March 1st, 2021
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Thank you for sharing this with us here.

Prettyallie7 March 4th, 2021
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If you're married he should have to pay alimony in the case of a divorce. But what it comes down to is putting your foot down. Also forcing him into your shoes for a day definitely works sometimes. My dad spent one week driving my younger siblings to and from school and immediately had a new and more reasonable perspective. If he can't see your side of things he doesn't deserve you and isn't a good role model for your children

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