Roommate phase
My husband and I have been together for 15 years married 10. It’s a lot, I know it work I also know. He and I are just constantly in and out. We text but he takes forever to respond and then he gets mad when I’m upset because I needed him and he doesn’t respond. We rarely go out alone. We don’t do date nights unless my mom keeps the kids. He doesn’t seemed bothered with it at all. I’ll ask him and he says he is fine it doesn’t matter to him. So I try and not bring it up but then for awhile I feel like I’m missing out on things. I feel like I miss him and I just being humans. But he doesn’t feel that way. I just feel like his roommate who is DTF whenever he is. It’s just hard to explain.
@ladybug0806- you explained it quite well. Long term relationships go through phases. Perhaps you can set aside some "we" time at home to rekindle the spark. Good that you are aware of this phase and want to share your concerns with him. What brought the two of you together 15 years ago? And share that with him. Best of luck.