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Not sure what just happened...

affectionateNest5633 April 1st, 2021

So long story short this girl im talking to comes back from Vacation and she sends me a message asking if I missed her and she missed me too. So we hung out that day things went great. The next day we hang out things go great too! She even serves up cheese cake on the same plate as mine and we eat it together. Then tonight she hits me with the I cant wait to see who you end up with. Then starts asking me what my type is. She then pushes to see my exes and rates them... she seemed distant during the day and then distant tonight. Is that a bad sign shes saying this all of a sudden? Should i be starting to think about moving on? :s any advice would be amazing!

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Asher April 22nd, 2021

It sounds that there unsure what to do and see if you would be happier with your exes maybe. Thank you for sharing this with us here.

exuberantPlace7826 April 22nd, 2021

@affectionateNest5633

It sounds like maybe she's feeling insecure because of your exes, like she's not sure if you like her as much as them. But it does sound like she likes you.

However, I think you should focus on how YOU feel when you're around her. Do you feel happy, confident, secure? Or do you feel worried, insecure, confused? If she makes you feel insecure, you might not want to continue hanging out with her. Find someone that makes you feel good to be around.

pinkMap4438 April 22nd, 2021

Hello, It is best to follow your heart. Is moving on better for you? You want to be treated with respect.