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Nothing is ever good enough

User Profile: TattedMermaid
TattedMermaid April 11th, 2021

I feel like everything I do it's never good enough for my mom or my BF . And that's the only people I have in my life. For example the other day I asked my bf if there was anything he wanted from the store and he sent me a list but didn't specify things. I picked up everything and the only thing he says is " this is the hoagie rolls? Well i guess I'll have to use two" and then when I should him the jalapeño peppers he was like " what is this? " i said u said jalapeño peppers and he was like not these the pickled jalapeño peppers. That's just an example... but It's always like this and it makes me feel like shit and idk what to do... we live together and been togethr for 4 yrs and i just dk what to do anymore. My mom has gotten better since she has retired but i just want positivity in my life.

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User Profile: Sweetcoke120
Sweetcoke120 April 12th, 2021

You should talk to him, and tell him that you are a sensitive person. I mean, it depends if he says those things in a normal voice pitch or an angry one. If he's angry when he says those things to you, you should express yourself, "Honey, I want to talk, the last days I've been felling a little bit down, cause I want to do the better for you and I can't". But if he says that normally, it could literally mean that, he has to use 2, and he wasn't mean to you. Like only he was expressing his thoughts. Some people are not aware of how they make feel each other when that say out loud what they are literally thinking.

User Profile: resourcefulApricot962
resourcefulApricot962 April 12th, 2021

@TattedMermaid

Just tell him to specify it next time.

User Profile: TattedMermaid
TattedMermaid OP April 17th, 2021

True i guess I'm too sensitive about it..but he's very like emotionless lol idk how else to explain it ...like idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ and he be ignoring me n shit a lot.. like he don't ever acknowledge me but when I do the same thing to him he gets mad..