Mixed emotions....
Well... we lost power supposed to be out till the 4th and it's freezing... On top of it his *** keeps going off like crazy and he refuses to check it in front of me and if he does tilts his phone to the side... goes off all hours of the night... disappears in the bathroom for half hour or more multiple times a day... but I touch his phone just to plug it in and he's like no it's fine I'm good right now and takes his phone... why the games lies... he makes it obvious and the sad I'm starting to not even care what he does or who he talks to... I don't have the energy to engage, confront, scold him anymore....
@sd92094
it seems obvious something is going on but what is the question..... if you are really over it just come clean with him and
tell him "hey the way you act with your phone etc and being gone is obvious lets not waste each others time just tell me what is up" i can tell you when he really feels you are aware he is not hiding whatever well and you are ready to hear the truth it will put him in the position to evaluate what he wants or is doing.... then he need to decide what is next.
Well I tried that, and he still denied it. Just to respond with I'm crazy and delusional but when I said okay fine why don't you prove it. Just show me then? He just talked around it and before I realized it he's redirected the conversation again... And leaving means he holds my children over my head and always throws me out and takes them to show he's superior even when I'm not at fault and he starts playing house with the new woman he's seeing is suddenly their new step mommy within days. And the kids always say they're told they have to.... *** take them to do all these fun things knowing I can't so if it came down to it they'd choose to be with him...
