Growth

My husband and I are in the midst of building a house. He’s a very decisive person and assertive. Although I know what I don’t like I sometimes have trouble knowing what I do. In a couple house building items I have just given up trying to explain my viewpoint because he just will not compromise and says he can’t see it. He is into contemporary and modern and calls my style country. Enough background. We were in a store yesterday ordering lumber and windows. He says that some of the comments i made seemed rude and that I acted disinterested. He said that he felt like I was throwing a temper tantrum. I don’t feel like i acted that way at all and didn’t realize that the person who was helping us thought that. I apologized to my husband and explained my side and I honestly did not realize that I was perceived that way. But I am still hurt by some of his comments and struggling to grow from this conflict. If you need more information to help give me advice then just ask :) thx