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Do relationships that started off as affairs last?

yellowTree9 May 13th, 2021

Just wondering as a very close aunt of mine was in a 5 year relationship with someone who ended up having an affair while she was working in another country. He begged for her back but when she refused, he went and immediately started a relationship with the woman he had an affair with. It definitely ruined my perspective on relationships as they both seemed so inlove

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brightSkies587 May 14th, 2021

Me and my bf started off as an affair, we were both in relationships and were on/off for two years. Officially been together for 4 years “faithfully” but I should’ve left a long time ago. Now we have a 2 year old son and my bf is controlling and disrespectful, we fight all the time and I’m honestly only in it for my son and because he is taking care of us financially. So to answer your question, I don’t think they last. At least I don’t think mine will.

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yellowTree9 OP May 14th, 2021

Sorry to hear about your situation. Did you feel any remorse for cheating? Did you both choose to leave your partners for love? Do you know the cause for all the fighting and his drama? Sorry for all the questions. He doesn’t sound like a very honourable man.. but he should have a legal obligation to financially support his child regardless

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