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Advice please

impartialVase5333 February 19th, 2022

I am marrying my best friend- she really is. We’re supposed to be just platonic life partners, but that ship has clearly sailed. We’re to get married next week. I’ve told a few people in my life- and they thought we were a real couple and were super happy for us. But when I told them the real reason, they were surprised. I was just kidding myself thinking that I didn’t have feelings for her. I’m oversimplifying the reasons/logic behind us getting married, but it’s something that we actually need to do. I need to figure out how to not let this eat away at me. Any advice or anything at this point would held

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hisvampire February 19th, 2022

When u declared that it's drowned why would u wanna hang on to the ship that's already deep down the sea? U won't be able breathe as time flies by. It's just utter foolishness,knowing that it's drowned and still in the ship,doing what? Mutually talk over it. Prevention is better than cure. Think over it! Make your decisions right. Cheers!

SamuelGreen February 20th, 2022

It seems to me that the problem is that you need to make sure that the partner's expectations are continued. You shouldn't cheat. This is my personal experience. Better to be alone but have a good friend. I also have experience with a local older woman on a dating site. This is a nice community where you can get advice about relationships with mature people while remaining anonymous.