major heartbreak right now
I broke up with someone I was so happy with but he started not putting any effort into anything, making excuses about it being too hard to text, ignored me consistently for three months, started swearing again and the breakup conversations lasted basically three weeks on and off and it's finally over and I feel awful
he was one of the first people I trusted with anything, like had genuine trust and love for and he was always so kind and sweet until the end when he couldn't be bothered to text me. he made several excuses and said it was basically too hard and that he doesn't want to talk to me and needs space. He apologized for everything but it still all hurts so bad and I feel guilty like I did something horribly wrong
He did a lot of things I was blind to at the time so I'm glad we broke up but I still care about him as a person and I feel so I don't even know
someone give advice?
@linvi
Breakups suck but he started it .... so you did nothing wrong....
when people choose to not text not call or otherwise engage in the relationship it is on them not you..too hard to carry on a conversation ? how much does that really out him out .
It sucks when you have trust and put yourself out there and in the end find out they really were not what we thought they were. It hurts not only losing what you thought you had but you might also be questioning your judgement on the whole thing.....
you are worth more and deserved better..... if a person can't or won't hold up their portion of a relationship..... it should be a sign to move on.
