Why she left me? And why am I still asking myself this after 9 months of break up!?
I don't know if I am normal or I need help. I can't overcome her until today, and I cannot delete our chat, pictures and get rid of her gift.
I did the mistake of what most men do, I tried to contact to her by all means. Then I stopped texting her for two or 3 months theh she blocked me.
I just need her as a friend at least.
Some people in your lifes are here just for a while .. sometimes they need to show or teach us somethign about ourselfes sometimes it is something different ...
It is 9 month mate and I can feel the pain but you have to leave her go ... delete/get rid of all things that reminds her to you ... you know it ... it is and will be hard ... but you just have to do it for yourself so you can give yourself a time to heal and to find someone new ... she already decided that she doesnt want you in her life as anything unfotunatelly ... it is time to move ... it is and will be hard and painfull I know but there is alway a better tomorrow for everyone ... trust the process, fate or god ...
Sorry to hear that you're hurting! It's ok if you don't want to get rid of keepsakes from your relationship. (I'm going through a breakup now too, and I'm a sentimental weirdo who actually wishes I had more mementos of my ex! He meant a lot to me, but we just couldn't make things last long term.)
I know that 9 months feels like a long time when you're going through it, but in the grand scheme of things it's a small fraction of your life. I don't know how old you are, but please remember that a lot of people live into their 70s and 80s these days, with some even living into their 90s and 100s! You likely still have decades ahead of life to live, people to meet, and new relationships to start. 💚
@moha13 I guess that's break ups for you sorry 🤷♀️ blocking did help me during my break up in 2018
