What do I do?
I don't know what to do...
I've been married to my partner for 4 years and I just don't feel it anymore.
Everyday is hard. Everyday there's an argument. There's nothing special or romantic or fun.
It's always just about them and I feel like I'm just dragging along because I care more about hurting the kids than my partner and they aren't even my kids.
I'm terrified to say this to my partner as well because of the huge change in life and I don't know if I'll be able to actually get through it if we break up.
I just don't know what to do. I feel very much like the frog in hot water but I just don't have the energy to swim or change anymore.
I'm lost and I just want to feel loved again. Feel excited about my relationship again...
Consider couples therapy. If someone else listens to you explain how your relationship has lost the spark it once had, and they’re their to listen to you explain it to the therapists, then maybe it can open their eyes to the situation.
From your statement, you still feel optimistic about your relationship. Take some steps to fix it, and you’ll hopefully get what you want.
Thank you for your words.
I've tried to get her to couples therapy before and she walked out because it was a man. That was the only reason. Because it was a man who couldn't possibly understand our relationship.
It's now only on me to get us to couples therapy. She's also accusing me of infidelity because I reached out to an old friend for my own sanity.
I just don't know...
I don’t know that I have much good advice here, but I just wanted to comment in support. I’m in a similar situation but more toward the beginning part of the feeling. I just wanted you to know that you’re not alone.