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The problem of my life.

User Profile: Fatmaisasoup
Fatmaisasoup Saturday

My family got divorced and I am two years and until now I can't forgive the person who was the reason for their marriage.


But I don't have more words to say, but those who have gone through the same experience, I wish they would tell me what to do, because I don't know how to concentrate on any need of thinking, and I became very sensitive and cry easily from accumulations.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 13 hours ago

@Fatmaisasoup

I am sorry for your family breaking up. 

Interesting phrase that "family got divorced"  I think it says a lot.    Divorce does effect the whole family.   I can understand you being angry with person you feel is the reason?    but when a couple no longer works...... it is a complex situation that someone outside of those two people may not understand.  To work through this may require looking deeper at the big picture of things.. 

Was an intact family worth people pretending to get along/ to feeling unhappy all the time?     to have perhaps fallen out of love?  Everyone has their perspective but sometimes we do not see what others do.    sometimes we think/ feel all is OK but when couple breaks we need to see we only saw the performance of all is well .....  not the distance or disagreements or behind closed doors things.

We after the fact can hear things we do not like or want to believe.Have you spoken with people to find the missing pieces of a puzzle of why this has happened?   assumptions or a one side of story often IMO leads to  half a story and we fill in with worse ideas then reality. 

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User Profile: Fatmaisasoup
Fatmaisasoup OP 11 hours ago

No, sorry, it's fate first and foremost.


I haven't talked to anyone about this, but I find a society where I feel free to express what is inside me, specifically that I am a teenager.

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