Suffering my First Heartbreak
I’m 15, and I need a place to vent and get some advice so… here goes.
A couple weeks ago, my now ex-boyfriend broke up with me because his parents told him to through text.He was my first ever love.
At first, I was in denial about it and hoped he would try and talk to me when school started back up again and get back together.
But since then he has deleted and un added me on anything we had contact on with. This is a type of pain I’ve never felt before and has been hard to process with.
I asked him if we could talk about what happened through a common friend, as I have many questions unanswered. Like why his parents decided to do that, and why he followed through with their decision.
but, he told me no, that he doesn’t want to talk to me, and to leave him alone. It hurt hearing that.
Throughout all this I’ve been getting closer with god, and trying to find a bright side to things. And recently I’ve been doing good, even though at times it’s hard.
Today. I scrolled through *** stories, and saw him on a friend’s post. Smiling and happy, doing something. I stared at the screen for a couple minutes, feeling sad all over again.
I know I should be happy for him or something. But a selfish part of me wants him to be sad.
So I have a question to those out there that want to answer, what are your opinions on the situation? And what do you think the best course of action is? I’ve been wanting to see others perspectives, and try to move on, even though I think I never completely will.
Thank you.
@brightCranberry8801
It is difficult to have something end abruptly.
We want answers or closure yet we seldom get that
Instead we try to piece together things and assume things by photos or responses on some social media post ....... this only makes it worse. ............ Text is not a good form of communication .....IMO we are left with too many open questions...... DID his parents really tell him ......or is that what he said to avoid it being his idea.... what is he afraid to meet or talk to resolve this.
Connection on apps should not hold too much meaning other then avoidance. Photos are a moment in time we smile often in them even if we are sad or feeling other things.
either way if his parents or him chose to end this does it matter.... you are more mature and sound capable of moving on even if you are sad this chapter is closed.
Thank you for your input, it’s refreshing to hear another perspective and opinion. Reading this has helped, and has given me some peace of mind. You’re right this chapter is closed.
Thank you.