Phase of relationship
I’m dealing with a lot of relationship issues right now. I mean there were times when those were the best days of my life but times have now flipped. He doesn’t treat me the way he used to. Every time i share my concerns he get angrier and feels like i’m starting an argument all again. Also, he doesn’t even try to improve the things which started all the issues between us and i feel like i’m the only one making efforts. I’m out there thinking all night about us while he is busy posting on social media and having fun with his friends. Also, he doesn’t leave me whenever i tell him to do so but makes me live this way.
@brightRaspberries2662
That is NOT a phase and he will not automatically change or be like he used to . You will be the person doing all the work and play "fixer" for rest of your time. If he will not leave that is a bad thing and you need boundaries NOW.
If this is a fairly new relationship perhaps he feels comfortable you are that into him....... so the first getting to know you and trying to become a couple phase is OVER ...
They can play video all day and expect us sitting there is together couple time... our feelings or discussion time they give us the nods and yeah yeah and then roll eyes act bored tell us we are trying to fight and start the gas lighting. the choice to go along and just do what they want or move on is OURS.
