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Need some advice

TaylorBear8754 May 27th, 2023

So my boyfriend and I broke up last August. This will sound stupid, but we had a secret relationship due to my parents. He was my bestfriend for the longest time, and everything was fine. We planned on getting back together in a few years. He kept making promises he couldn't keep. We basically still acted like we were together until about a month ago, then he started becoming distant. I don't know what to do. He completely ignores me when I see him, yet he answers all my calls and texts perfectly normal. He will sometimes be a complete jerk, then nice the next moment. All I want is my best friend back. He was the person I really talked to, and now it's affecting my overall mental health. I don't know what to do. Should I just give up, or keep fighting for him?

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toughTiger6481 May 27th, 2023

@TaylorBear8754

I am sorry you are dealing with this....

with being secret/ planning ahead and now a recent distancing ........ while we think we will wait until a time you do not have to be secret from parents.....

when planning sometimes both parties do not see the same vision.

LIFE can change people everyday .......as more time passes........ perhaps he met someone or is second guessing what his future should be

distance and moody would be sometimes..... a sign....

He does not sound like he wants to hurt you and is continuing taking calls and text........it also keeps you as a back-up.