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My dad is cheating on mom

simbasky April 28th

Recently i found out that my dad is cheating on my mom. And i was NOT surprised i always doubted him. But still it really f-ed me up. Now that i am sure that he is cheating idk what to do.. Should i tell my mom? I scared..

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toughTiger6481 April 28th

@simbasky

There may be a good chance she might already know ....in many situations the partner has a good idea or knows  the signs often are clearer for the partner. 

Of course it is scary to talk to her as she may have been hiding what she knows from you...  letting it out could bring up many emotions.  no way to know which way it goes. 

What is your hope getting out of a conversation?   ...  that she will be as mad and upset as you... perhaps leave him or ask him to leave there is a lot of moving parts in a scenario ....

How would  a divorce change things for everyone?  

Have you thought about  discussing with your dad that you know?   

 Once he knows that you are aware and once she either finds out or knows that you know too...   

the dynamic changes when something like this is out in the open..... it can go many ways.....