Just talking
I get insecure in relationships when I don’t receive my love language which is words of affirmation and my x couldn’t handle that. I always told him how I feel like he doesn’t love me but he did so much for me that he thought I was being selfish and wanting more out of him. He left me and he goes to the same school as me and lives up the road from me I see him at least once or twice a week and he seems to have moved on already and started talking to knew people. I’m trying to move on as well but it’s really hard when your scared of change. It’s hard to talk to new people and I feel like all guys think I’m ugly because something my x said to me that made me self conscious. “People made fun of me for dating you” I grew up always being bullied so it’s really hard
@ChloeJo
I am sorry you are dealing with the aftermath of your breakup.
while knowing your love language..... it does not mean your partner is good at expressing themselves that way...
When we break up with someone or even a big fight they can say things they KNOW will stick with us and create self doubt....they know a weak spot and will inflict damage . I know it is very hard to let go of even a flip comment meant to hit your self esteem.
do not let him have the satisfaction of knowing his comment worked ... just march on as breakup was his loss.
