I’m in a relationship with a girl who cannot stand to be kissed

Hiya @willingCranberry8588 welcome to the community. 

Physical affection can be an important part of relationships. How do you feel about your partner's response towards you initiating some with her? 

@willingCranberry8588

Have you spoke to her about it? 

if you know the reasons then you can address it.   Some hesitant to kiss are  nervous about if they are a good kisser, maybe  they had bad kissers in past relationships, breath issues , germ phobia lots of possible reasons not related to hurting you.  

@willingCranberry8588

Have you asked the girl what is the reason of her behaviour? The answer could be important.