Has anyone here had a vindictive ex who has called police on them for sending text messages trying to show care or concern

To add context, my ex is a woman. 39. Had no relationships ever. Claims she had one 12 years ago with a guy. Very wrapped up with her life playing golf. Her mum is vice president of local golf club. They have a big massive house and big cars on the drive. Ex still has bedroom in their house. We matched on bumble in march she seemed pretty confident and talkative despite never talking to a woman in this way. We got on really well at the start but then when I started to go and stay with her as a remote worker I started to see issues emerging

She has a chronic condition- ulcerative colitis. She hardly has any food in the fridge or freezer. So there isn't much to eat. I live in Birmingham. She lives in Manchester. I don't have my in home. She does. My parents are homophobic. I'm having to pay quite a bit of money on petrol for the car and now for food. She doesn't seem to like paying for anything. Seems tight on money.

On the one iccasiln I wasn't up there she goes to get her hair done and the machine swallowed her card, it takes her 2 weeks to sort it. Borrows 250 pounds of her mom. Don't know why. One of the days I'm getting a bit fed up working from her house and I'm stressed I suggest going out for a meal and she asks me to pay half I say no sorry I haven't got the money

Another occasion I meet her parents for a Chinese takeaway she gets ill, she thinks she's having a flare up but it actually turns out it is food poisoning I fake her to out of hours GP in my car, next day tries to tell me to go home even though home us a 3 hour drive because she needs space...no consideration about me and that I was due to start a new job and needed her support

2 weeks later we have a really bad argument that I admit to causing I swore at her, I had a very bad set of events happen to me, I changed lanes on a motorway and some man in a car was going mental at me, I was worried I'd be reported to the police or dvla. Then few days later fail assessment at work. I'm on a heavy period. I feel neglected by her. I don't really see daylight apart from 4 walls. It's ok for her she us a sports teacher and is out and about. I'm not and everything started getting to me.

I decide I need sone fresh air as I'm going insane and decide to go out but I have her doorkey. I wasn't trying to be selfish AND her parents live down the road and their house is like open door policy so didn't think me going out would be an issue. But it was an issue because I kept her waiting 30 mins. And she even told me. I went upstairs and I felt like pure ***. Came downstairs and swore at her called her f**King joker you don't care about ne I have to entertain myself. I flew past her with my stuff and sat in the car for 2 hours. She finally allowed me back in her house because I had my resit the next day

The following day was my resit and in the morning we had a cuddle and I apologised. She kissed me BUT then went to work and started ignoring me

And in my mind it's just playing mental gymnastics with someone and I was pretty *** off. She refused to discuss the argument at all costs or what caused it and left me in her house on my own to cry. Didn't card that I hadn't eaten a thing all day all she could say was its still light outside you can go home and I was basically pleading with her to resolve things I e en went to her parents house to try and appeal and spoke to her dad but no she did not come home

So I stayed in her house I don't know why, I know I should have come home. The next morning was bad she started to shout at me and next thing you know her dad is ringing her and he's coming to look at her boiler. Probably nothing wrong with the boiler she just did it to ensure I *** off back home. So I was basically thrown out of her house and humiliated. I cried all the way home. Then she messages me - are you ok. I said are you serious!!!!!! Communications past this point are strained she just doesn't speak to me at all.

So I decided to try and make a peace offering and drove up there with some flowers and a card. I said to her that I'm thinking about her and will be here to support and wrote a card to her parents to apologise as I felt I let them down big time because I was staying in their daughters house and I said thanks for treating me with kindness. The next day I'm accused of harassment by her. And she turns very nasty and cold on me. Needless to say I reacted badly to this and said you are vile. You left me on my own which is disgusting. You do not care about me.

On the 11th July I got a call from the police and she reported me.